“We owe each other a word, face to face”… This is how Afrona and Blero began their public confrontation, after several years apart. Although the singer had previously stated what he said in this interview, the entire conversation, more stories told and many more unsaid, is actually very exciting. The emotions are first accepted by Afrona, who finds it difficult to hold back her tears, but Blero, although he tries to have a little more self-control, feels equally emotional in front of his ex-wife.
At the beginning of the interview, he congratulates Afrona on the podcast, but notes that he invited himself to be a part of it. Unlike Afrona, Blero believes that they owe nothing more than each other, but the reason he agreed to confront her publicly is to set a good example for her as civilized people.
We don’t owe it to anyone but ourselves, but I think it’s good to set a good example, a civilized example, that can inspire people. I think that even as two civilized people we can talk about anything and set a good example…
Furthermore, both insist on the reason for the breakup of the marriage. Why did they get to this point?
Afrona: Why didn’t our marriage work?
Blero: Very good question…
Afrona: Why are we where we are today?
Buy: 1 million euro question….
Afrona: Why did you come here?
Blero: From some of my personal thoughts, which were not measured, I think they were appropriate at the time. I think they were wrong. After all, we are humans and…
Afrona: Everyone makes mistakes…
Admitting that he is the main cause of the marriage breakdown, Blero publicly apologizes to his ex-partner and even admits that it was his stubbornness that led to the divorce. Furthermore, he admits that the distance also took its toll on him. Afrona was the one who sacrificed the most, since she tried to live in Pristina, she even started to work, but she couldn’t learn. He, on the other hand, who was supposed to do the same, actually refused, so things didn’t go well after that either…
The reason it didn’t work out for us is largely my fault, my fault. I admit it publicly, I also apologize publicly Afrona, sincerely. At that time, the idea was to stay in Kosovo, you know? But I should go with you to Switzerland, but I haven’t seen it like I see it today. I thought so. You were always right when you said “it must be like this, like this, like this,” but my stubbornness was the main reason for the dysfunction of our marriage. But the man sees his mistakes later. The main part of the dysfunction in our marriage is me, the distance, the ideas…
